Having To Be Strong, AgainI don’t want to say too much. It’s all bit raw. Processing. It looks like big change is about to happen. Not with my health. At least, I don’t think...Reactions0reactionsComments1 comments
No One Tells You This About Blood Cancer We have heard the joke about the 2 big certainties in life being taxes, and death. And while we can certainly avoid paying taxes for a while, eventually, the tax...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Bottoms Up: A Peri Care StoryI was diagnosed with chronic myelogenous leukemia in 2011. Having an autoimmune disease means trying to avoid infections wherever we can. My fellow blood cancer patients can relate. When I...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Me and the VikingsShortly after being diagnosed with multiple myeloma on May 2, 2011, I started my blog, "MattvsMyeloma", as a way of letting family and friends know how I was doing, given...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Cancer and the Ways It Changes Your LifeCancer is a lifelong illness. I know many of us have heard that phrase, or even said it ourselves, but what does it really mean? Does it mean A. cancer...Reactions0reactionsComments2 comments
What Does Chemo Feel Like?Over five years, I had cancer three different times. The first and second times, it showed up as non-Hodgkin's lymphoma, and the third time as large B-cell lymphoma. I had...Reactions0reactionsComments2 comments
Facing FearI saw several suspenseful disaster movies back-to-back when I was young. Some of these included The Poseidon Adventure, The Towering Inferno and Earthquake. These movies gave me nightmares for months...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Shades of Mean and What To Do (or Not Do) About ThemIf you could choose how people would insult or put you down, would you want it to be in your face or indirect? More like a shout or more like...Reactions0reactionsComments8 comments
A Different HeadspaceI think I’ve now had 2 blood cancer appointments where my consultant hasn’t talked about my going back on treatment or double checking I’ve got some ‘just in case’ which...Reactions0reactionsComments1 comments
Considerations When Sharing Your Cancer DiagnosisWhen or if to share your blood cancer diagnosis is an extremely personal decision, and there is no wrong answer for patients. Some share, some don’t. While we might feel...Reactions0reactionsComments6 comments
Tips to Managing Health Insurance With Blood CancerI used to think that all insurance plans were the same. One size fits all. Just hand them your card, and you will magically have all you need covered! Once...Reactions0reactionsComments1 comments
Trials of RemissionThe term remission is a term that brings comfort and relief for many, and there are those who also feel “What’s the catch”? Multiple myeloma has a way of resurfacing...Reactions0reactionsComments2 comments
Word of the Year and the Impact on My Cancer JourneyEvery end of year, I come up with a word for the new year. For me, it seems to be a better alternative than trying to make resolutions. I try...Reactions0reactionsComments8 comments
Remove the Mask: Talking About Your Blood CancerIt's okay not to always be strong. It's fine to let others and, more importantly, yourself, know that living with blood cancer takes a toll on the patient--mind, body, and...Reactions0reactionsComments1 comments
While You’re At It DocWhen I was first diagnosed with blood cancer my oncologist arranged for an infusion nurse to stop in to see me a day before any chemo treatments took place. It...Reactions0reactionsComments11 comments
Being Proactive About Your HealthSickness happens. We come in contact with another sick person and catch whatever they have. We usually know kind of quickly that we are coming down with something because of...Reactions0reactionsComments3 comments
Blood Cancer SuperstitionsMy wife used to come to all of my oncologist appointments with me. When I was in active treatment for follicular lymphoma, it was very helpful to have another set...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
2023 Holiday Survival GuideThere's been a lot of discussion lately about cancer and the effects it has on family and the people close, and, well, there is no time of year like the...Reactions0reactionsComments6 comments
Gratefulness - Mic Drop MomentI was speaking with an acquaintance the other day about my multiple myeloma. The conversation turned to my remission of over five years. It then moved to improvements in treatments...Reactions0reactionsComments8 comments
Out of the DarknessThe initial response to the diagnosis of blood cancer can be overwhelming. I remember feeling in denial. This could not be happening. I never had any symptoms. Anger followed. I...Reactions0reactionsComments2 comments