Hi McClain,
I was on Revlimid for 2 years and seemed to live a pretty "normal" life. Yes you have to be careful being on it but I find that the same with any medicine you go on.
Are these all symptoms that you are having, or that you have read about? Personally, I did not have a lower WBC count on it and did not put my love life on hold, just uber careful and safe. Although that was my experience remember that everyone can react to the same medicine in different ways.
Have you talked to your doctor about your concerns?
I hope that helps and please let me know if you have any other questions!
-Elle