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The Decade That Was

I’ve always loved end of year lists. I can’t get enough of them. I’ll buy magazines and watch a bunch of end of year shows. When we went from 1999 to 2000, it was almost overwhelming with all the end of century lists. Add to that, the concern that Y2K was going to disable all of our computers, I huddled up under a warm blanket for New Year’s Eve 1999.

My end of the decade multiple myeloma list

As we transition from 2019 to 2020, I’ve noticed a new phenomenon; the end of the decade lists. I don’t remember these ever before. But I guess with the speed of changes and the flow of information, an end of decade list might make sense. And when I stop to think about it, I realize that I might have missed a whole lot this decade. I was diagnosed with multiple myeloma in early 2011. I’d been feeling sick for a few months before then. And in 2010, I had surgery, unrelated to myeloma, that represented the start of my decade of medical adventures.

New treatments for multiple myeloma

The first couple of years after my diagnosis were uncertain and scary. So I wasn’t paying close attention to the world around me. In fact, and in all honesty, I don’t think it was until 2016, when I started an immunotherapy, that I could pay attention to things both important and trivial. I finally felt comfortable and healthy and able to enjoy things that I used to enjoy B.D., before diagnosis. This highlights perhaps the biggest change this decade and that’s the fortunate development of many new therapies for multiple myeloma. In 2011, there weren’t that many choices for treatment. Now, nearly ten years later, myeloma patients have a number of options. For me, the development of immunotherapy has been life-changing, both figuratively and literally. Life expectancy has increased for myeloma patients. In the coming decade, hopefully, we’ll see CAR T therapy as a much more viable option for myeloma patients.

Marriage, Mt Kilimanjaro, and more

For me personally, there’s been some big highlights in my life this decade. I got married. I climbed Mt Kilimanjaro. I’ve raised money for myeloma and blood cancer research. I retired from work. I’ve met some amazing fellow patients and made wonderful new friends. I’ve changed quite a bit. I appreciate things like never before. Incurable cancer will do that to a person.

Cognitive and physical challenges

Getting back to what I’ve missed, 8 plus years of treatment has definitely impacted my cognitive capabilities. I know I forget things now. My wife reminds me of things we did, that I don’t remember.  I lose things now. Keys, a Kindle, my water bottle. To combat this, I’ve started reading more and doing crossword puzzles to keep my brain strong. Mind and body go together. Although, my body is struggling of late. I’m definitely getting serious about fitness in the coming decade. I want and need to be the fittest cancer patient I can be.

Loooking forward to the next 10 years

But for now, I’m going to make a trip to an actual, real life bookstore to buy some end of year and end of decade magazines. I’m looking forward to getting caught up on things. And I’m looking forward to the next ten years. I have a sense of optimism that I couldn’t have imagined when I was diagnosed in 2011. Happy New Year and Happy New Decade everyone.

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Comments

  • Carole McCue
    1 month ago

    Hi Matt,
    Loved reading your thoughts and share things you have experienced.
    Wishing you continued good health,
    Enjoy your travels🙏🏻

  • Ann Harper moderator
    1 month ago

    @mattg you’ve done some wonderful things – good for you. Staying fit is perfect and will help you to have the best next ten years ever – good luck to you!

  • Ramae Hamrin moderator
    2 months ago

    @mattg Your optimism is contagious, and what a decade you’ve had! Mt. Kilimanjaro — wow! I’m still less than two years out from diagnosis and still recovering from transplant, so I haven’t thought in decades yet, but perhaps I should. I play Lumosity daily to help with memory, but I haven’t found anything that helps me remember where I put my keys!

  • Susan Gonsalves moderator
    2 months ago

    @mattg I’m happy that you are feeling this optimism. I’ve got one of those incurable blood cancers and it is difficult at times to look at things long-term. You’ve packed a lot of living into those past 10 years and hopefully, you have lots of adventures to come. Do you find that puzzles, etc. help with memory? (I lose my keys, shoes, etc. on a daily basis)

  • Daniel Malito moderator
    2 months ago

    @mattg You’ve had quite a decade man! I feel like even some people without MM can’t claim to have done as much as you, and that’s awesome! I’m glad you found a sense of optimism to go along with looking to the future. Let’s hope it rubs off on some of your readers too! Keep on keepin’ on, DPM

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