We can be lonely together! Cancer is a hugely isolating illness and the way people react can surprise you. When I told people about it, a couple of people I thought would shower me with care and step up literally disappeared, and a few who I thought would be like "who cares," stepped up and came by almost every day. It is SUCH a powerful word alone, it makes people feel all types of ways. Just know, though, that you are never totally alone. You can always come here to be with others who completely understand. Keep on keepin' on, DPM