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The Value of Being a Peer Mentor

Experiencing and living through a cancer diagnosis involves taking charge in an overwhelming environment of tests, treatments and physician visits. As a cancer patient, one needs to learn how to ask the right questions, seek a second opinion, and know how to locate supportive resources. This describes self-advocacy. This type of empowerment helped me avoid feelings of helplessness. Instead, it allowed me to maintain hope and enhance my quality of life.

Why peer support matters

Many survivors want to give something back in gratitude for survival. I felt that sharing my experience with other cancer patients would be a way to do this. Passing on this knowledge and experience from a seasoned survivor to a newly diagnosed cancer patient provides a foundation. This shared knowledge is based on the fact that information is powerful.

I was fortunate to contact the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society when initially diagnosed with Lymphoma. My contact person was most supportive, listened, and helped me cope with my anger and overwhelming anxiety. At that point, I made myself a promise that if I survived this cancer, I would like to be a patient advocate. In my earlier years as a nurse, I did have the opportunity to assist our staff oncologist in forming a cancer support group. During the meetings, I witnessed firsthand how cancer patients positively responded to education and support.

As a cancer survivor, I feel I can educate others, discuss survival, defy myths and stigmas, and help others struggling with similar issues. Advocacy is really informing and supporting people so that they can make the best decisions for themselves. I believe some insights about cancer can only come from a patient’s perspective.

Turning lemons into lemonade

I participate as a peer mentor in the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society’s Patti Robinson Kauffman First Connection program. This program connects cancer patients who are newly diagnosed or starting a new treatment with a trained peer volunteer who has gone through a similar experience. During a telephone call, I am able to listen to the patient’s need or concerns. I Offered resources may include a nutrition referral, local support groups, educational programs, online chats, and a newly available clinical trial specialist.

The patients are so appreciative of the calls and have verbalized a sense of comfort that someone cares. From my perspective, I am the one who is comforted to know that I can make a difference in someone’s life. Having cancer has been the most difficult challenge of my life. The ability to help advocate for other patients has allowed me to turn “lemons into lemonade” and show my gratitude for all the support I have received.

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  • Jim Smith moderator
    2 months ago

    @cmccue I was not aware LLS had such a program. Thank you for doing peer mentoring. You must be a real blessing to newbies struggling with their diagnosis.

  • Carole McCue author
    2 months ago

    Thank you Jim. It is most rewarding🙏🏻

  • Deb Wesloh moderator
    2 months ago

    That is so awesome that you’re a peer mentor and are able to help those that have recently been diagnosed with blood cancers. When I was first diagnosed with both my cancers in 2016, I felt so alone, scared and confused. Especially so with the polycythemia as there was no support group in the area, only on-line forums. I, like you, decided if I survived these two cancers I would try to do something to help others diagnosed with similar cancers.
    I signed up to be a mentor for both cancers but have been the most active with the breast cancer. I’m on my second mentoree, and it’s so incredibly rewarding! It also has helped me immensely to share my experiences with others diagnosed. I need to check out the First Connection Program, it sounds great! Thanks for doing what you do!

  • Carole McCue author
    2 months ago

    Hi Deb,
    Thank you. I am the lucky one who receives great satisfaction from contacting fellow cancer patients.
    Wishing you good health,

  • Carole McCue author
    1 year ago

    Hi Daniel,
    Thank you for your kind words. It is gratfying to be a peer mentor and have the opportunity to give back. The patient feedback is most positive. A win -win situation.

  • Daniel Malito moderator
    1 year ago

    @cmccue I think cancer, more than anything other disease, can benefit from peer mentoring. It’s such an individual disease, even when someone has the exact same diagnosis as you, they may nto have experienced the exact same progression. It’s vital to get some kind of personalized info when you start down such a scary road. Keep on keepin’ on, DPM

  • Yolanda Brunson-Sarrabo moderator
    1 year ago

    I totally agree @danielpmalito. Again, each experience is so different, but having a mentor share their journey is rewarding.

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